Requiem: Free gift from first checking account.

IMG_3167I went to school at a small women’s college in the small town of Nevada (pronounced Nuh-VAY-duh) Missouri. Back in my day, when you went to college, you had to open a checking account in your college town because it was before debit cards and if you weren’t going to carry cash around all the time, a checking account was what you needed.  I put off going to open my account on the special day they had for college students, and then had to force myself to go on another day. It was my first checking account, and seemed like a very big step and I wasn’t quite ready to make that step.

There were (I think) four banks to choose from in Nevada, and I chose Citizens State Bank because they offered a free gift if you opened an account with them.  It was a crushing blow to realize I’d sold my choice for a pocket mirror. I’m not sure what I was expecting, but it wasn’t this token. However, it was for years my eyebrow plucking mirror as I could prop it on the windowsill and use the natural light to find the stray hairs.

I’ve just realized that this was not the last Citizens I banked with.  There was one in Massachusetts, too.

Is Citizens still there?  Apparently, it changed even before I left in 1995.  It merged in 1994 with the Mercantile Bank of Western Missouri which merged in 1998 with the Mercantile Bank of St. Louis National Association which became in 1999 part of Firstar Bank of Missouri, which merged in 2000 with US Bank.  And that bank still exists.

Someday someone is going to write about the many bank mergers of the 90s.  They were super annoying and I’m guessing they didn’t help ME any.  In Boston I had to keep switching banks because I would find a nice small bank and it would be gobbled up by some conglomerate that wanted to charge me tons of fees because I didn’t have a combined balance of $5000.00.

Requiem: Delia shoes.

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Oh Delia*s.  How I enjoyed your catalouges when I was in my 20s.  This is my last item of clothing from that company remaining in my closet; the company has folded.  These shoes were always fun to wear because let me tell you, many men really enjoy big, stacked shoes like this.  “Those shoes are amazing!” many men (always men!) in my age demographic would say.  Perhaps they are not as aware of the fluctuation in fashion and the shoes make them think back to their college years, when all the hot girls wore big shoes like this.

The delia*s logo:

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Three sentence movie reviews: Fire in the Sky*

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This was a well-acted exploration of male friendship and is populated with a decent amount of early-90s actors you’ve seen in a ton of other things.  It’s also about an alien abduction, but the vast majority of it deals with the fallout of those left behind. According to the expert who spoke before the movie, Hollywood got the alien part wrong.

Cost: Free. It was kind of a history pub, but McMenamins is going to start having regular History Pub-style meetings at the Mission Theater, but concerning UFO/Alien Encounter stuff.  I couldn’t find anything about it on the website to link to, but that’s what we were told.

Where watched: Mission Theater with Matt, Laurie, Burt, Brooke & Mike.

*It’s like we’re watching the sequel to “Smoke on the Water” Brooke quipped.

poster from: http://www.impawards.com/1993/fire_in_the_sky.html

What’s up with me and cooking lately?

Glad you asked.

For the past year I’ve been a subscriber to SoupStones, so a nice lady from Australia sends me five recipes to make each week.  It’s $20.00 per month, which is outrageous, but the food is good, it makes the right amount of portions, I don’t have to think, and most of the meals come together quickly.  So every Friday (that’s aspirational, mostly I do this on Saturday morning) I make my grocery list for the week and then on Saturday go shopping.

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However, since the beginning of April, I’ve been taking a class on Thursday nights, which means my weekly schedule looks like this:

Monday: long work day, can’t do much when I get home.
Tuesday: tap class
Wednesday: restorative yoga
Thursday: Pattern Manipulation Class
Friday: pretty much toast

This schedule doesn’t really leave me much time to cook during the week, so I’ve been doing a week’s worth of cooking on Sunday.  It’s not my favorite thing, but  like it better than spending too much money eating out.  Plus, I know that I have food for the week.

I usually run out of steam before I complete my list, though.  As you can see, the Hot, Cheesy Chickpeas didn’t happen.  I told myself I would do them later in the week. I won’t.

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Requiem: Motion Industries Mug

IMG_3163My first job out of college was for Motion Industries.  I was the receptionist, and the company I worked for had recently been acquired by MI.  Redundednt people were being let go, everyone in the company was older than forty, and there wasn’t  really anything much to do.  I was bored and depressed and it was the kind of company that only had two holidays per year and accrued any vacation time for a full year before awarding it. I lasted eight months before fleeing.  Best part? My boss Roberta Cronin.  “You are terribly overqualified for this job, but it’s yours if you want it,” she told me about a week into my temp gig.  We made it official and I learned–not for the last time–about  the danger of settling for whatever job comes my way.

Three sentence movie reviews: Avengers Age of Ultron

avengers_age_of_ultron_ver11Matt and I celebrated our thirteenth anniversary in style with Marvel’s biggest earners, enjoying their quips and antics.  Overall, I found this to be a tighter movie than the first one* and I enjoyed the Avengers-at-rest scenes more than the big battles.  So here’s hoping the next two movies concern Avengers chatting late at night, and perhaps doing their superhero laundry or cooking a nice meal or home renovation.

Cost: $10.75?  Matt bought the tickets
Where watched: Regal’s Vancouver City Center 12.

*”They have to get that cube thing AND kill off all these creatures? This movie will go on forever!” I thought at one point when watching the first feature.  Luckily, getting the cube thing killed off the creatures.

poster from: http://www.impawards.com/2015/avengers_age_of_ultron_ver11.html

Three sentence movie reviews: Furious 6

fast_and_furious_sixIn which the series lets go of any small grip on reality as our heroes–currently wealthy and somewhat bored in exile–are recruited by the Rock to help take down a super bad guy which they agree to so 1) they can get Letty–who is not actually dead, but has surfaced with amnesia–back and also 2) be pardoned so they can go home to good old Los Angeles.   But first there must be much fast and furious driving in many different countries and some great hand-to-hand fighting to keep those bored by fast and furious driving, but never (never NEVER) any shooting of anyone by Vin Diesel.* Favorite moment: probably Letty and Dom racing through London and then having a sweet moment together**

Cost: Free from library (because Videorama doesn’t seem to have any copies of this movie due to catagorizaiton error. Employee Yvonne and I looked for it in vain. Luckily, the library still has a ton of copies.)
Where watched: at home with Matt wandering through and stopping for the fight scenes.

*At one point he picks up a gun and attempts to hit someone with it, and then it flies off and we continue with the bare-knucked fighting.
**Because I’m a total sap.

poster from: http://www.impawards.com/2013/fast_and_furious_six.html
IMP poster commentary favorite quip: Vin Diesel’s backside in saggy pants?  What a waste!

Books read in April 2015

I’ve been reading one chapter every night of the  Betsy-Tacy books, but this month I zoomed on through several of them.  Someone on Goodreads observed that, much like Tolkien, the world is so clearly imagined that the books are a pleasure to read, even if you could care less about Merry Widow hats and “puffs” and pompadours.

Highlights this month:
Picture:
Last Stop on Market Street
Trombone Shorty

Middle Reader:
Listen, Slowly

YA:
Betsy & Joe

Grownup Fiction:
The Grapes of Wrath

Picture
Last Stop on Market Street
de la Pena/Robinson
Read for librarian book group
Looking for a picture book depicting commuting via bus?  This is your book.
Earmuffs for Everyone
Meghan McCarthy
Read for librarian book group
I found the story to be interesting, the telling of the story rather random and chaotic and the illustrations to be sub-par.  “Man,” I thought to myself, “If I had written this and THIS was the illustrator they pared me with, I wouldn’t be too happy.”  But the author seems to also be the illustrator, so I guess she’s happy with her work.
Draw What You See
Benson/Andrew
Read for librarian book group
Story of the life of Artist Benny Andrews, who also illustrated the book.  Good, although Mr. Andrews seems to be no longer with us which was addressed in a weird way.  Present tense in the book itself, past tense references on the flap with the author/illustrator notes.
The Case for Loving
Alko/Qualls
Read for librarian book group
The story of the family whose interracial marriage brought them all the way to the Supreme Court.  Story itself was well written, but I found some of the illustrations random and odd.
Trombone Shorty
Andrews/Collier
Read for librarian book group
The story of Trombone Shorty, written by Mr. Trombone Shorty himself.  Good narrative, with illustrations I spent a lot of time looking at, but mostly because I found their construction distracting.  Really great historical photos in the afterward of Trombone Shorty when he was a boy.
Middle reader
Listen, Slowly
Thanhha Lai
Read for librarian book group
The story of a twelve year-old girl regretfully giving up her summer to accompany her grandmother to Vietnam to find out more about her grandfather’s last days as a soldier during the Vietnam war. Things I loved:  perfectly captures the outrage of the loss of summer, combined with the guilt that comes along with helping family members.  The main character’s descriptions of everything that was foreign about Vietnam (despite growing up in a Vietnamese immigrant family) were mostly funny, when they weren’t pulling on your heartstrings.  There was a great progression of maturity of feelings as the story progressed. I really loved every character in the book.
I was never, however, compelled to just keep reading more, which I found odd.  I’m not sure if this was because the story is such a good meander, or the writing wasn’t very gripping.
YA
Betsy was a Junior
Maude Hart Lovelace
Oh Betsy, you’ve finally decided to set your cap for the handsome and proud Joe Willard and what happens?  Not what you think is going to, just as with many of your exploits.  This is also the book where I learned that sororities aren’t such a great idea.  Not that I ever probably thought otherwise.
Betsy & Joe
Maude Hart Lovelace
Lest you think that life is smooth sailing for Betsy just because Joe has second billing in the title, think again!  It’s senior year for our friends and Betsy once again begins the school year deciding how things will be.  And then we get to read about how those things don’t quite come to pass.
 
When I Was the Greatest
Jason Reynolds
Read for librarian book group
Great setting, good characters.  Nearly complete lack of plot.  It took a long time to figure out what this book might be about and then what it was about felt very thin.
Betsy & the Great World
Maude Hart Lovelace
Betsy sets sail for Europe in 1914.  Guess what big event eventually brings an end to her year abroad?  I found the transition from the end of Betsy and Joe to this book jarring.  Four years have passed and the Ray family has moved from Deep Valley to Minneapolis, something that is referred to in passing and never fully explained.  I went back and looked twice, just to see if my skimming had something to do with it.  This may be because I should have read Carney’s House Party after Betsy and Joe, but I did not know to do this, nor is it listed in the series order.
Anyway, aside from that, Betsy’s adventures in pre-World War I Europe are interesting, and it has a great ending.
This Side of Home
Renee Watson
Read for librarian book group
YA fiction set in Portland, Oregon with a neighborhood level view of gentrification.  Good narrative, good characters.  For whatever reason, Jefferson High School and Alberta Street were renamed for this novel and I found it immensely distracting.
Adult fiction
The Grapes of Wrath
John Steinbeck
Read for Kenton Library book group
I’ve finally made it to California with the Joads.  It was a very good ride.  For the first 200 pages I chafed at the sheer volume of words, but after that I settled in for the ride.  Someone in book group remarked how she thought about the characters throughout the day and I had the same experience.  So much of this book applies now that it’s almost as if more than 70 years have not passed. Alas.
Nonfiction
Aqua Net Diaries: Big Hair, Big Dreams, Small Town
Jennifer Niven
I adored Niven’s All the Bright Places and was eager to read her memoir of growing up in small-town Indiana, attending a large high school in the 1980s.  However, reading the actual book I spent a lot of time debating if I disliked the book so much because I would have not liked the author had I encountered her in high school. After much contemplation, I can say that I think my dislike stemmed partly from that, partly from jealousy (Niven was pretty, popular with boys, an only child with lots of privileges and her family was much wealthier than mine was) and also partly because the way she presented her stories from high school was not that interesting.  Have you ever looked at yearbooks from high schools that were not yours?  They are boring.  And that’s what this book felt like.  Boring stories told by a person I wasn’t too enamored of.
So skip this and read All the Bright Places.  It’s a beautiful story.
Ida M. Tarbell: The Woman who Challenged Big Business and Won.
McCully
Read for Librarian Book Group
Thoroughly researched book about pioneering journalist (and muckraker–though she rejected the term). Her coverage of the Standard Oil Company for McClures magazine helped bring about the trust-busting reform movement in the early 20th century.  Tarbell, aside from being an accomplished career woman in a time when few women worked outside the home, also was an Anti-Suffragette.  This made for a very interesting dichotomy later in her life.
This book was very complete and so incredibly boring to read.  It’s a great source for someone doing research, but otherwise kind of a snoozer.
In searching for the full title, I was pleased to discover the book that Tarbell published about the Standard Oil Company is online.  Though it sold quite well, it was very difficult to find copies in the decades after it was written, perhaps due to the Standard Oil Company purchasing and destroying the book.  You can read the book by going to: http://www.pagetutor.com/standard/